May 13 2011 GET OUUUUUT!!! You’ll Never In A MILLION YEARS Guess Who Ray J Is Dating NOW!!! May 13, 2011: MediaTakeOut.com just got a SHOCKING piece of info. Ray J is dating . . . and by dating we mean SMASHING . . . Danielle from the Real Housewives Of New Jersey. Yeah . . . kinda STRANGE.