This is a forum post by the user JEHOVAH
: FOR YOU DUMB PEOPLE I AM A MALE, THIS IS NOT MY STORY JUST WANNA SEE WHAT ADIVISE WOULD YOU GIVE
We Met Online, Had An Amazing Encounter, But It’s Been Weeks & I Can’t Let Go & Want Him
Dear [SPAM],
I am a 30-year old woman who is single and decided to try online dating since I’ve been a party girl and single for the last year and a half.
I wanted to try a new approach to meeting guys and now I feel like it was a big mistake. Here is what happened. I met this 37-year old guy online and he must have talked the best game I guess I had ever been exposed to. I was kind of reluctant in the beginning and would just ignore his texts, calls, and instant messages on this site. (Takes deep breath). I finally decided to give in and start responding because he just seemed like he was so into me, and I began to fall for it being that I’m open to being in a relationship. He was older, had a job, car and his own place. Hell, I felt I had hit the jack pot. HA!
Fast forward and we are texting and everything, and then we started sexting. Sending matured and rated R-pictures back and forth and talking a lot of *** talk. At first I felt uncomfortable, but I also felt like we hit it off, so I was like why not. This is where I made a mistake. He invited me to his place and I was cool with that. Of course I wanted to look good, so I had on a lil dress and heels, smelling good because I wanted to make a good impression. What I thought would be just dinner and a few glasses of wine turned into a FULL BLOWN *** OF PASSION. Immediately, the attraction was there and one thing led to another and I didn’t come home that ***. I guess what got me is that this man made love to me like we were in love and had been together for years and that is so not the case. SIGH <Flash back>
I went home the next morning and he asked me to come back later that ***. Even though I was on cloud 9000, I was reluctant thinking in my head, what if this becomes just about ***, and that’s what I didn’t want, or at least that’s not the impression I was under from the conversations we had. However, after that *** he started acting differently – not responding to my texts as fast or my calls. So, I became angry, but trying not to let it show. So, two days went by and I decided to send him an angry text letting him know how I felt. He stated that I was overreacting and that he is doing what he normally does, which I guess now doesn’t include me. So, we go back and forth and he states that I am acting like this since we made love, (his words). Which I agree. Dude made me a lil crazy. My ex of 4 years didn’t even suck my toes!!!! It has now been 2 weeks since our encounter and I feel bamboozled and can’t let it go. I like this man and want this man, and he has done a 360 on me and I can’t accept it. Please help and take it easy on me. Sincerely – I Am Not A One *** Stand
