I think I talk to much mess and eventually it drives people away.
My problem is I tell the truth to the point where it offends people. How come I cant be like everyone else and just agree with everything?
no one likes a yes man...
There's nothing wrong with telling the truth however if you're shoving it down their throat of course they're going to walk away. It depends on how you're saying your thoughts.
Are you giving your opinion when no one asks you to? It could be that.
its a time *** place for errything
yo parents shoulda taught u that
I understand you all but I cant help this bad habit. Like today I made this comment I finally realized that the comment was rude 2 hours after I made the comment. I ran into this guy that I use to date at the store he was congratulating me on going back to school. He was asking me about me and my man and things like that and I just snapped out and said "Why are you worried about my life if you are not paying any of my bills don't ask questions about my life or my man because when I was with you, you couldn't do ***. I know I had *** with you back in the day which I am not proud of because it was not like it was good or anything actual it sucked but just because I did you don't mean you can always be up in my business". After I said that he looked so hurt he said OK have a nice day and walked away.
3 days ago I ran into a couple of my past co-workers that I worked with when I was a teenager. They were around their late 40s and 50s when I was a teenager. All of them where old people and all the old people started so much mess at this retail place that I use to work for. Me and one of my friends went to this restaurant to get something to eat and they where their. They began to tell me how pretty I looked and my response was "WOW I see you people are not color stuck anymore last time I worked with you guys I was the nappy head *** *** that was hating on the biracial female. You self hating yes massa poor excuse of a human being black people must of had a wake up call." After I said that one of the ladies screamed you still have that nasty mouth *** and walked away. Then I started to think maybe I do have a nasty mouth and I don't realize it.
Maybe I do hold grudges.
^^You think? lol
Some people deserve a tongue lashing but I do need to learn how to cut people up in a nice way with out seeming like I am attacking them!