This is a forum post by the user MzEbony
: Is it the curiousity? Could it be that he/she is jus to damn sexy? Do u think about ur relationship b4 ur final decision?
Me I figure he might have cheated anyway so Imma get my cheat in to and call it even. If you dont get caught its not cheating!!
BBWsweethart, I tell women straight up that the idea of being faithful is stupid.
If I want to get my rocks off else where, it isn't, because I don't care for her, it's because I'm bored with sex with her.
That doesn't make me bad guy. It's true.
As someone already said new [EXPLETIVE] >>> old [EXPLETIVE].
women cheat cause theyre unsatisfied. men cheat cause we like new [EXPLETIVE]. thats why if a woman cheats the relationships over. but if a man cheats you can work it out. a man can be perfectly satisfied and happy in his relationship, love his girl, and still cheat on her with some sloppy b*tch from the bar.. it just seemed like a good idea at the time..
But some people seem to equate having sex with someone else as the ultimate betrayal. People put too much emphasize on sex.
I've asked my female friends would they be more upset if there man spent more time with another woman than them (but never did anything sexual) or upset with their for sleeping with another woman one time, but they've been the best b/f the could have.
Of course, they said they'd be more upset with the sex part, which is crazy. It's why I don't do relationships. It is our biological imperative to want to have sex with others. To restrict to a monogamous relationship will only end in one or both of you becoming unhappy or upset.
There's a reason why open marriages last longer than monogamous ones.
Hmmmm... I don't cheat... When I'm in a relationship I try to keep it 100%... I don't get the whole new pucci vs. old pucci thang... If u keep it tight... Should take decades for it to even get old to ur man... If at all...
But while I'm single... I feel like I be cheating because I live it up... Condoms is a ma fukka!
And the amount of married women who have offered it up to me... from a lawyer to a preacher's wife. SMH. Women are just as bad... but as Bob said, it's because they're unsatisfied.
If you really think your man won't cheat, I feel sorry for you. Men don't need a reason to cheat. If the [EXPLETIVE]'s there, smells good, looks clean then we'll take it.
thickgurl24 Flag post Hmmmm... I don't cheat... When I'm in a relationship I try to keep it 100%... I don't get the whole new pucci vs. old pucci thang... If u keep it tight... Should take decades for it to even get old to ur man... If at all... ---------------
thats cause ur a female. your prime objective is to nest. youve probably been planning ur wedding since you were 8, and had names picked out for ur children since you were 9.. men are conquerors. hunters. when we were 8, we were thinking about all the [EXPLETIVE] we're gonna get when we get to high school and college. so of course you wouldnt understand new [EXPLETIVE] vs old [EXPLETIVE].. its not in ur nature..
DaRudeCommunicator Flag post
If you really think your man won't cheat, I feel sorry for you. Men don't need a reason to cheat. If the [EXPLETIVE]'s there, smells good, looks clean then we'll take it. ------------
i wont go THAT far.. some men dont cheat.. but i think a faithful man thinks about it 10times as often as a faithful woman.. whether they act on it or not.
fishbobthefry, true. But most faithful men don't act on cheatomg because they have more to lose. If it was 100% full proof that they could sleep with another woman without arousing suspicion or getting caught, 9/10, the so called faithful man will cheat. But as always, there are exceptions to rule. I have just yet to see that.
fishbobthefry Flag post women cheat cause theyre unsatisfied. men cheat cause we like new [EXPLETIVE]. thats why if a woman cheats the relationships over. but if a man cheats you can work it out. a man can be perfectly satisfied and happy in his relationship, love his girl, and still cheat on her with some sloppy b*tch from the bar.. it just seemed like a good idea at the time.. * * * * * * * * * * * * I definitely agree with that one. I see a sexy female and think to myself, "if I was do phuck her, once I finished, the desire would have totally vanished, but the act itself would always exist and it would be a lie I would forever live with" and that just isn't worth it. So, I look and/or flirt and keep it moving. Sometimes, even knowing you could hit is uplifting.
DaRudeCommunicator Flag post fishbobthefry, true. But most faithful men don't act on cheatomg because they have more to lose. If it was 100% full proof that they could sleep with another woman without arousing suspicion or getting caught, 9/10, the so called faithful man will cheat. But as always, there are exceptions to rule. I have just yet to see that. --------------
i agree.
undeeniable30 Flag post If you really think your man won't cheat, I feel sorry for you. Men don't need a reason to cheat. If the [EXPLETIVE]'s there, smells good, looks clean then we'll take it. ***** I co-sign with this. * * * * * * * * * * * ** Me too. And we always have the "if you feel like your'e gonna cheat, you don't need to be in a relationship". Well, shyt happens. I don't think people go in a relationship knowing they are going to cheat...well, not everyone.
MzEbony Flag post @DA RUDE A respectful cheater doesnt envolve their family life in the cheating relationship. Almost like a split personality so sorry they do exsist!! ------------
huh? if you have a family life at home, every time you cheat, ur involving ur family.. cause if you get caught, ur family is in jeopardy. i dont care how split ur personality is.. if ur woman find rubbers in ur coat, and she's been on the pill for 2 years, ur family is involved.
funny how chicks be hollering about condoms but be at the clinic for other purposes..
WOW!!
anyway people cheat for different excuses, whatever it is, it is just that, an excuse. Not justified but whatever floats their boat. Women however normally cheat for reasons way different than men, like feelin unappreciated,or lack of intimacy, no attention. Where as men normally will just go for it for the thrill of new ass or not getting caught or cause they dont get it on a regular.
no you know what it is...it's called bein childish! if u cheat, you aint no woman, and you aint no man. it's time to grow up! imma grown ass woman and i would neva cheat on my man! he said that he would neva cheat on me, but hey u cant control nobody. i mean it's hella childish! there too much stds goin on in the world, but yet mofos still dont learn! a fukk aint worth shiit! after you get what u wanted, then what? whats the point of bein inna relationship if u gonna cheat?! its jus fukkin immature! grow up and stop fukkin everything u see, nasty asses!
@pharoh
"If I feel like I gotta
cheat then
I dont need to be in a relationship."
-EXACTLY!
kikibaby Flag post BlacAngel
well if u aren't satisfied then why are still in the relationship...obviously you aren't :)
Im sorry i thought the question was a general one I did'nt know the question was directed the person anserwing me I dont cheat i do have friends that do. and they all point to fustration as the reason. me,im cool(at least for now) lol......
I think it is a common misconception to say that women cheat because their man didnt pay them any attention or they were unsatisfied....whereas it may not as often be the same case as with men... some women just like new penis as well...the same ol dick attached to the same ol dude can be just as boring....
