This is a forum post by the user Rev_Billybob
: How are so many black children fatherless from the womb?
People need to think this single parent thing...The experiment hasnt worked...Its unatural and deprives the child of a complete family experience...
Children who grow up without their father in their life usually dont do well in school and get in lots of teenage trouble...Then they repeat the whole cycle.
Thats my point...
Why dont people bother to get to know the person they are dating before they actually have ***?
Meet the mother ...Meet the daddy (if possible).. Meet the brothers and sisters...The brothers and sisters will usually tell you the stuff that no one else will tell you...Ask him how he feels about children...If he has children and if he is in their lives?...
What his goals are and how he feels about developing a business plan with you for yourselves and the childrens future...
Get a blood test to see if he has herpes or chlyamydia...Check his credit score...Go out on sexless dates for at least 3 months.
Likes attract....I hate to say it but bummy females usually wind up with bums...Same types of energy...
If a womans spirit is on point, she usually attracts a decent man....If her energy is whack , she usually attracts a whack dude...
There are very few mistakes in the universe.
You get what you pay for and you get what you are ready for.
You can get to know a person, meet the family or whatever that dont mean *** these days.
People change each and every day. You have men that cant cope with a female being pregnant, her gaining weight, the attention is not on him anymore or the pressure of just growing up. Things happen in people relationships. Once the kid come that where you know if the relationship will stick or break it up. You have alot of selfish men out here that dont wont the responsiity of a family but just want to be there for his kid. Depending on the man age alot of men are just not mature when it comes to fam
Its amazing and you see it a thousand times...
A woman jumps into bed with a guy she's known for a week and get pregnant and then is shocked that he's not there for *** feedings and Chuckee Cheese time...Then they are shocked to find out he already has 3 other children whose life he's also not into...Then they are shocked that he has no steady income...
You get what you pay for.
Its amazing when you got men out here that lives double lives. Not the *** life but a double life when it comes to being with just one woman. You have men out here that lie about how many kids they have, lied about having a job, and lied that they are a loyal and committed man where he is not.
Men these days are just lazy, always want to blame the woman for his mistake in life, have no motivation and dont want nothing in life but for a female to take care of them.
I just find it so funny how when you have men that love to bash females they are ***.
I'm starting to believe that SOME of these women like this *** so they can have a pow-wow with their other homegirls who've been played, so they can have something to talk negatively about a ***. Instead of giving that so called "square" a chance, cuz for the most part they don't like them. But they do love the drama a thug type *** can bring them, but that's just my observation and i aint complaining cuz i'm neither a thug or a square. I've struck a happy meedium between the 2.
It continues to amuse how the focus on single parentage is almost always blamed on the woman and her inhibitions. While some of same women are not without fault, why arent our young men instead of being given a slap on the hand raised with the premise that they should always use a condom? & by default be forced to face the music & adhere to the consequences when they refuses to? The hypocrisy is ridiculous!! FOH with the double standards, it takes 2 to tango, also why arent young men pressured the same to preserve their virginity until they're married??
Nobody wants a ghetto,bitter,fat,self-hating hoodrat woman with a nasty attitude that tries to wear the pants in the relationship. Most of the broads on here act the ones in here. I can imagine how they look and act in person. Most of these chicks on MTO are school on a Saturday "No class" they hate knowledge, because they hate themselves. People with an open-mind know better. That's all!
Scorpio
Maybe you dont want the responsibility of being a woman but the truth is in nature, the woman of the SPECIES CHOOSES THE MATE...
The women is the one who decides who she lets in her sacred chamber and black women have forgotten how sacred *** and reproduction is...Women control the *** and they control who gets inside the gates....
You may reject the responsibility of choosing a mate WISELY, but not doing so results in what we are seeing now amongst our community...
CHAOS , with abandoned children hating everything and everybody and *** on everything.
HUEmanbro Figure8, is the epitome of hoodrat *** and is bitter because she doesn't have a man. She spends most of her time on mto hating on others, because she has low self-esteem and she doesn't have anything but a bad, nasty attitude.
Hue...You are a typical whitewashed NEGROE.
You just repeated everything the white man says and OWNED it.
Whicho Uncle tommin negroe azz
some women are desperate for a man and cant live without a man and they think that by having a baby by a dude that they no nothing about is cute and that will make them stay .but you complain when the dude leaves and he's a dead beat dad when you never knew him in the beginning,come on black when lets get it together
@MABELINE
"it continues to amuse how the focus on single parentage is almost always blamed on the woman and her inhibitions. While some of same women are not without fault, why arent our young men instead of being given a slap on the hand raised with the premise that they should always use a condom? & by default be forced to face the music & adhere to the consequences when they refuses to? The hypocrisy is ridiculous!! FOH with the double standards, it takes 2 to tango, also why arent young men pressured the same to preserve their virginity until they're married??"
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COSIGN MABELINE!!!
@TOPIC...
I TRIED TO EXPLAIN SOMETHING SIMILAR TO @PRADAMANE ON HIS THREAD LAST ***, BUT IT SEEMS TO ME NOW THAT IF ANY MAN IS "ALREADY" CONVINCED THAT WOMEN ARE INHERENTLY EVIL AND THE BLAME FOR ALL HIS PROBLEMS IN LIFE THEN THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO FRIGGIN' WAY ANY BRAWD IS CHANGING HIS MIND. PERIOD.
IT IS A FRUITLESS, SELF-DEFEATING EFFORT.
Women and men make choices that can easily be regretted later. But for you to say you blame women who chose them, NO! Men are the way they are because of the way they are raised. Whether its mommy, daddy, or mommy and daddy! That *** starts from home. I am a single mother and I have 2 boys. My boys are 4 and 1 and my son already respects women to the utmost. I dont play....
And for the record, my father died when I was 3. I have never been in trouble with the law (a few speeding tickets) and I graduated high school at the top of my class! My mother never bought another father figure into our lives because she thought it was disrespectful to us. Of course she dated and went out, but she never had *** company, and she never let a man move in when I was growing up.
See ladies , Im going to quickly tell you what the problem is as it pertains to this important topic then Im going to offer a possible solution as to HOW TO GET YOUR MINDS RIGHT AGAIN...If you think my solution is valid , then pass it on to your little sisters , daughters and nieces...If not then lets just agree to disagree and just part friends.
The problem #1 is we have been kidnapped and culturally reshaped by a European *** mandated society (cant call it a culture)... In European society it tells us that men and women have a 50/50 responsibility and thats the first falsehood...WOMEN HAVE MORE OF THE LOAD BECAUSE YOU BEAR THE BURDEN OF CARRYING THE CHILD , THEN CHILDBIRTH , THEN REARING THE CHILD BASICALLY ALONE FOR ITS FIRST 4-5 YEARS OF LIFE...
This means that the woman is worth more than the man (its not 50/50)..Thats why in our true culture a dowry was involved...Families had to meet and greet, because a womans worth is more than the man...The mans job is to PROVIDE AND PROTECT the woman so she can have the time to run the village , whilst he goes earns and builds and at *** he brings what is earned back and put it on thetable so the women can put it in the bank and purchase what goods were needed to maintain the village and provide its necessities...
The European is a *** based culture which tells us men and women are equal , because there men are historically(Greeks , Romans , SanFranciscans) anti-*** and anti family...Thats their thing. This is why they advocate men and women competing for the same jobs and this is why in the 1960's they set out to break up the black family by telling black women they will give them free money to raise their children IF they put the black man out of the house in order that the white male can have greater access to the black male and so their INSTITUTIONS of learning will become the new educators(DAY CARE) and caretakers of the black child and become the new parent for the newly orphaned and abandoned black child.
I could go on , but I think everyone gets the gist of my opinion...Im in no way saying that women *** work or *** be highly educated...THATS NOT WHAT IM SAYING...Im saying that it was gthe goal of certain verifiable Institutions (PLANNED PARENTHOOD, THE FORD FOUNDATION , THE ROCKEFELLER INSTITUTE , ect.) to destroy the essence of the black family because the family provides CULTURAL AND COMMUNAL STABILITY and that was a direct and open threat to those who goal is to exact total control of the 9 major areas of human interaction on this planet.
Amen
first of all, the baby-making thing works both ways...the guy should make sure he's wearing a fitted condom or the girl needs to be on birth-control. think twice b4 saying *** e thing negative about single parents because im a single parent and me and my daughter r just fine...as a matter of fact we're better than fine...not once have i ever had to wonder where the next box of diapers or can of milk is coming from
No no no... The other lady "ITSREALLYTOOMUCH" had it right in her post...
How in all reality is it going to truly be 50/50 , when the woman holds ALL the cards? You hold all the cards , you have the majority of the responsibility..
Women get to decide which children will be aborted or not..Women get to choose which contraceptions they will or wont use...Women get to choose the babies father...
MEN HAVE NO SAY IN ANY OF THIS...We cant force you to bring a child in this world and we cant force you to abort a pregnancy...We cant force you to carry the child for 9 months...YOU GET TO DECIDE ALL THAT and you get to decide every step of the way...All we can do is present a hard dyck and you decide , YES OR NO...
Im sorry if its a responsibility or an accountability you are not comfortable bearing the burden of , but with power (POWER OF THE WOMB) comes great responsibility...It may or may not be fair , but it is what it is...
The solution is we have to start thinking communally again and stop thinkling like LONE WOLVES...Children should again be a villages responsibilty...Women *** be left alone , bearing the burden alone and thats where the Europeans society reveals its glaring imperfection...Families dont meet...There is no reason in the world why in Scorpios case , she has to still work, then leave work and go sit in the hospital in the evenings...The babies fathers parents and relatives should be there , taking their turns looking after the baby...Then Scorpios family should come the next day and take their turn...It should be a village project to proect the child...Its not fair to Scorpio to have to do all that alone..Its too much..But...
Because the families probably werent asked for their permissions to bless the union , they dont feel apart of the process...Their opinion on the choice of mate wasnt asked and there were no chaperones, there was probably no courtship , no dowry , etc.
Dont be mad...Lets just figure out a few ways to repair the problem so next time we get it right when our young ones are ready to find a mate.
MEN HAVE NO SAY IN ANY OF THIS...We cant force you to bring a child in this world and we cant force you to abort a pregnancy...We cant force you to carry the child for 9 months...YOU GET TO DECIDE ALL THAT and you get to decide every step of the way...All we can do is present a hard dyck and you decide , YES OR NO... ----------------------------- Ive to disagree with you! if a women happened to give a dude "the green light to go" that dude also have that choice whether he wants to have a child or an diseases by that woman..(use condoms dumb *** if you dont want to have kids or a std)
Just because you use a condom doesnt meana you cant catch a STD...
What about oral ***? What about tongue kissing?
Full body condoms?
Unless you are the woman are going to have *** like a *** AND A JOHN (no kissing , no mouth to vagina contact) then you have no business laying down unless you are ready for the consequences...The man or woman can have genital herpes and you go down on the woman and you have a mouthful of herpes or gonorrhea...
People dont want to just accept the fact that WOMEN HAVE THE GREATER RESPONSIBILITY...Until negroes stop trying to have recreational and anti-*** acts (same *** contact) like Europeans , you continually are going to be confused , the families will stay broken and the children will run wild and unattended in the streets...
Go ahead and get your condoms and give them out to the 11 year olds in school... Doesnt solve anything and you dont even make condoms...Most people dont even realize the dangers of LATEX products because people dont think things through for themselves...They just follow whatever PROPAGANDA is repeated to them on the Boob Tube.
See , the racists at Planned Parenthood wont tell you that...
THEIR GOAL IS TO MAKE SURE BLACK PEOPLE STOP REPRODUCING to the point of self genocide...
They , dont give a *** about you catching any diseases because if they did , they'd tell you that the mouth carries more harmful bacteria than the genitals...
They just want to make sure you dont out breed their weak and DYING WHITE RACE...If they were really concerned for your health they wouldnt make condoms out of LATEX...
most hospitals make their employees sign a waiver now relieving them of any liability for LATEX GLOVE allergic reactions and death..And thats just l;atex contact with the hands!
Imagine the physical harm of latex contact with the inner walls of the vagina and the delicate head of the ***...
O.*** so what about the people who've been in relationships for a long time a say um about a year or so and then chick gets pregnant and he leaves...i've seen it too many times and not just with black dudes...regardless of race, age, how you entered a relationship if a dude doesn't want to be there then he doesn't period point blank end of discussion.
What real/grown man uses the word deuces when he's peacing out? Billybob you got a ton of *** powder in your drawz today playboy!!!
delicate head of the ***... --------------- WHAT!!!Another example of some "hey now" in ol' Billy, what's up with that "delicate" *** player? lmao
He don't give no props to the preciousness *** walls (life supporting walls at that) but the head of the *** is "delicate" to him, it's prolly "tender" to you too huh? You ol' parkerhouse sausage smoker you!!!
dykedyke
You are a ***-American , so you wouldnt know what it feels like to get kicked in the ***.
You also wouldnt know about how delicate the sensitivity is on the head of a *** as opposed to your rubber strap-ons.. So , of course you wouldnt know about anyhting other than how sensitive your vagina walls are and how precious that feeling is to you.
Deuces Chi-Town "Bruh"
Naw wrong again our *** are more delicate than anything , yes the head got some hellified nerve endings. and you can say what you want but you just got found out that you care more about the welfare of the *** than you do *** becuz you're a ***. I guess you really do put the PRIORITY on the thing you love the most, don't you?
Whoever thought of this was clever. GOD had a design that not many choose to adhere to. It's a wonder why nothing works for the "family unit" these days. As a woman who's husband left her after five years of trying to conceive and receiving his demands of a boy to carry on his name's sake, he abandoned our family while my son was but nine months old. GOD knew what HE was doing when HE designed the family unit. It's been mankind who chose to *** it up. It's really up to us to maintain those chaste reputations, morals and high self esteem. Everyone wants a good woman or a good man. Truth be told, if you are patient and a believer in GOD, HE will give you that special someone. As humans, none of us are willing to give it to GOD and live the lives HE wants us to live, so what do we expect? IF we trust in HIM and let HIM lead us, I promise you that you will find the right man or woman for your life, and your personal family lives will be successful.
Rev_Billybob as shakespeare once said in Hamlet Scene III act II :
"The lady doth protest too much methinks" ---------------
Wow if you think that was funny you need to go to funny school. But imma tell you what's FUNNY, you are!!! I finally figured you out Billy, you are a flaming hot cheese doodle ***, That's why you can talk down about Black women without batting a pretty eyelash. You ALWAYS find a way to somehow include the sisters in a plot with the whiteman to bring the brothers down. (ie your life jacket thread) And you always projecting your lascivious *** lifestyle and moral's on the Whiteman. That's why you're always saying it is their culture but i think you have adapted and adopted their so called "culture/lifestyle" quite well. It explains the other reason you tried to e-scratch daisy's eyes out, you're quite the catty one, no? If a *** like myself shows a lil education in the way i post you try to explain me away as a *** trying to communicate as a man, another one of my examples of how you like to fight the girls. I guarantee to you that this is a Man typing to you, no "fun girl" no fantasies or wishes being made. Like i said once before can't no woman, straight, *** or otherwise communicate like a real man can. And switching gears a lil bit i peeped something else You secretly want to be the Whiteman, you admire him, and you LOVE him. You don't have to front for us, your secret is safe we don't know you personally dude. Because no real hater (and that's what you spew everyday about white people so don't front) would be quoting Sheakespere and hamlet and the actual scene, a real hater wants nothing to do with them at all. But that just shows your healthy admiration for him, so i'm gonna move on. And i'm still trying to rationalize how you can call the head of a *** "delicate" i think sensitive would have not set off the sirens on your sissy booty *** like delicate would have. Shiiid i remember like yesterday when *** would compliment you like "That's why i love you Rev" and you wouldn't check that *** like you was supposed to, You just soaked it up. I bet deep in your heart you wanted to say "thank you boo", or something like that. Well in closing i just thought i would let you know about the epiphany i had concerning you and your behavior, and i figured i would just call you on it. It's funny how *** starts adding up when you think about it.
