This is a forum post by the user sexiblaqchixreveng
: WARNING!! IF U DONT LIKE READING LOOOONG OPINIONS YOU WILL WANT TO KEEP SCROLLIN....okay.. lets be real, theres good and bad in each race, good and bad in both sexes. some of u dont seem to realize that when a woman rants and raves over a subject its because she feels passionately about it...personally, i dont care who dates who. i dont care who thinks what is cute, ugly or in between. what i do care about is black ppl PERIOD.. i notice a lot of black women saying to hell with black men and black men saying to hell with black women. is this really the love or hate that we have left for one another?? trust me black men, i understand totally what u mean by saying that some black women are ratchet, some are rude and disrespectful..some of them arent willing to let u be the dominant one, some are too this, that and the other...i get it OKAY!! still makes u look bad as a black man to punish her with verbal attacks and insults when she is already hurt, be bigger than that, men dont indulge in cattiness with women, and ladies i know some of u feel abandoned and betrayed by black men, because truth be told typically the same type of women that some black men on here are bashing, will be the same black women holding down a black man in numerous ways as mentioned in previous comments IF that man was broke and unknown. but we as black women need to be mindful of how we communicate our feelings and opinions to and about black men in a public setting like this, so as not to sound like idiots to our black men and to the rest of the world...i feel bad for my fellow black women when they are hurting so bad over issues like this, but may not have the right words to speak to black men so that they know where we're coming from and that we are on their side just in pain...instead some of us put our foot in our mouths by sounding uneducated or irrational or plain bitter and further push the men we are speaking about further away, but trust me whether u are a black man, woman, or child.. u are still black. we still need each other in some way or another. i cant imagine a 14 yr old young black boy and girl reading this thread word for word... what would they think of the adults in thier race, what will they think of themselves?? again..its amazing how we have been taught to roast or trash each other. and i hope there are whytes on here pretending to be black.,,, because i find it heart-breaking to see how some of the men on here are so furious with the black women for being upset.. now i dont care who u are, if u have a conscious and a heart it hurts to see ppl like u disrespect u in the face of those who are nothing like u... thats what some of the black men on here are doing,, and thats what a lot of the black women are doing as well.. let me be allll the way honest.. we as black women do outnumber black men.. so to the real black men in here.. know this,, a lot of black women are upset that u guys date other races at such a high rate.. because�... our black men are getting locked up, killed, taken by women of other races,,, or they are ***.. what do we have left?? *** RIGHT BLACK WOMEN ARE ***!! AND U CAN OBVIOUSLY READ ALL ABOUT IT RIGHT HERE ON MTO
Let me just say this: it's a shame that ppl only see color. What difference does it make if ur African American or Caucasian? All races have their murderers, rapists, poor ppl, rich ppl, uneducated ppl, ignorant ppl, etc. If a black man wants to be w a white woman or Asian or whatever type of woman, let him be. How is he hurting anyone? You make it sound like there are a *** of black men due to all the non-black women they are with. There are black women out there with other races. I can understand the black man getting tired of black women saying that they feel betrayed. That's probably why some of them don't want to be w black women. They're getting tired of the stereotype that says they date outside of their race because they don't like black women for whatever reason. If that is the case so what? Let them have their life. Did u ever stop to think that maybe he simply met this white girl and liked her so he chose her? Black women are too sensitive about interracial dating. It's 2013. Get off of it. Black men can date whoever they want. Apartheid is OVER! Black women date white men but u don't see black men crying and blogging over it. I'm a half black woman dating a black man. He could've been white it wouldn't matter because I fell in love w his personality. I think it's very stupid that some ppl think interracial dating is taboo. U can't help who u love. Black men are not obligated to date black women and vice versa. There's only one race and that's the human race. There are 2 kinds of ppl in this world: ignorant ppl and educated ppl. Be smart when u talk about relationships because getting mad over interracial dating is very stupid.
First NyCandy.. i never said ALL black women are ***.. i said black women are ***... take it as u want... u are obviously speakin from a bi-racial point of view and i understand what u're saying, i just cant say i completely agree with it, i never said that black men have no right to date who they want had u read everything i wrote u would have seen the words (personally, i dont care who dates who). i stand by everything i said because its how i feel.. and if u didnt understand what i said word for word then maybe u should try and read it again... the whole "there are 2 kinds of ppl in this world" bs u can miss me with, now i dont know if u pay attention to real life situations or if u are just one who lives for this site... but to answer ur question why are black women *** well hmmm lets see for starters, lots of black men are ***/trannies and it seems to be more than that in jail, lots of men dating other races..and plenty of them are being killed off from the women in their lives. thats my own observation from where i stand in this world.. trust me its not all about who dates who.. but how they treat the women in their race should still be respectful.. now i see lots of comments on here that say all black girls are ugly, dumb, stupid, broke, lazy, all these things that are negative and not true... do u ever step up and say.. HEY!!! not all dark skinned black girls are ugly,HEY!! not all black women are lazy!!!!...HEY!!! not all black women are gold diggers, u dont.. because u're probably light skinned and always being told how cute u are.... i'm speaking for black women who are really upset when they see a comment on here by a black man saying how he would NEVER wife a black woman or how he feels all black women are (insert negative discription) if u dont see those comments i suggest u run thru this site and see for urself... as a Black woman, who was produced by a black mom and black dad, and has dark skin, i really dont expect a mixed woman to understand where i'm coming from or where some women like the ones i'm am speakin for are comin from . because u're probably one who will see a comment about a black woman being ugly or unattractive and put ur Amen to it... if u read my whole comment u would have seen me say i dont care who dates who.. but i wont sit by in silence while black men disrespect black women all while praising women of other races.. and sweetie u really sound silly saying that black men probably date out their race BECAUSE black women feel betrayed.when they do it.C"MON,&i know how ppl meet NYCandy,and get close i'm sure that most ppl who date and or marry, had to meet NYCandy, had to talk and find that they like each other NYCandy, i get that, and i'm really not the one to try and school on here.. because i'm far from a stupid chick...i have love for ppl in general of all races, but i have a soft spot for the ppl of my race and not even sorted candy like u can change that... ijs AND BY THE WAY THERE IS A *** OF BLACK MEN,SILLY, AND THE ONES WHO ARENT LOCKED UP OR ***, ARE HURTING BLACK WOMEN WHEN THEY DATE OTHER RACES..I DONT CARE HOW U LOOK AT IT. DONT LIKE THAT I SAID THAT? THATS FINE.. U'RE MIXED I'M SURE U WONT UNDERTSTAND A LOT OF THE ISSUES THAT AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN HAVE WHEN IT COMES TO BLACK MEN.
All races disrespect all races. But I can see why someone wouldn't like u. Ur disrespectful. I did not disrespect u in my comment by talking about how black u might be but here u r talking about my skin color. U r very racist. Ur being a hypocrite. Ur on here bashing me but u don't like it if a black man bashes u. He probably doesn't like ur attitude. Just by reading ur comment I'm sure u speak like this to ppl. No black man or white man would want to deal w someone who is so bitter and take things so personal. I'm just saying.... I read the comments on here. There are alot of ignorant ppl in the world and ur feeding into it. U cant stop or control ignorance. I understood what u wrote. My whole point was..... GET OVER IT! The world is not going to stop because ur fed up w something. Grow up and stop crying like a little baby. Don't get mad at me because u look in the mirror and hate what u see. If u loved urself, u wouldn't care about what anyone else thinks. It's not the color of ur skin ppl don't like, it's ur insecurity. When u learn how to talk to ppl, then maybe u can get further in life. Leave them black men alone let them live. Let them say what they want. Worry about yourself. U on here tryna start a million woman march *** it's not working out for u. Call me what u want, by the way I'm not light skinned. I'm brown skinned and I don't care about other ppls opinions. Any black man who disrespects black women or any other race is disrespecting himself, but why should I care? I respect myself and if a man disrespected me, what am I supposed to do? I will tell u what I will do, I will keep it movin cuz I'm better than to give anyone the satisfaction of making me angry. I will never be crying about black men this... Or that.... So yes Ms. Thing grow up and get over it!!!!
Ijs everything on here is "black black black"..... The last time I checked, ppl of ALL races were getting locked up, unemployed w a women holding them down, running the streets, being disrespectful, but all u say is "black men I'm so ashamed"..... O cut it out. U kno what I think the real problem is? U don't like what u see in the mirror. U probably wish ur skin was another color. Black is beautiful but u don't think so. If u thought so highly of urself, the opinions of others wouldn't even matter. But u don't, so u came on here to bash ppl who don't even matter. They exist but they don't matter. I've been disrespected and I just ignore it. It doesn't make me any less of a person but it sure doesn't make me any more of a person to feed into it. U need to check urself because whether u like it or not, u show how bitter and angry u r about this "black-on-black" disrespect and no one cares. $h!t happens.
And by the way, how is there a *** of black men? Ur calling me silly but I would like to know where u got ur statistics from. From the contacts in ur cell phone? Or did u call the Census Bureau?? U really are smart aren't u? The black men who aren't locked up or *** are hurting black women when they date other races? Where'd u get that one from? U must have spoken to every black man in the world to come up w that. Girl bye get a life.... And a man!!'
OKAY FUQQ OFF SUPERHEAD!! now NYC i sense that u have absolutely no idea what the words i wrote up there actually meant. let me say this AGAIN.... i am a black woman, who cares about the relationships of other black ppl... and u say i'm a racist??? because i love black men and relate to other black women, is that what makes me a racist in ur opinion? if so I DONT GIVE A ***! i am on here killing time and speakin my mind like everyone else.... if u felt offended by anything i said... then maybe u *** take things so damm personal and need to follow ur own advice..u say that all i see is 'black, black, black,' well u knew what the topic was so why'd u bother responding?? its obviously a subject u're admittedly tired of....u certainly didnt try and understand where i was coming from.. because u came to this forum with venom as if u were someone who hates black women that love black men.... and also why'd u feel the need to tell me u're black and white if race or color wasnt an issue to u?? why because we all see color honey i dont care who u are or who u date. it doesnt make u racist sweetie or mean u dont like ppl of other races its calles knowing who u are and seeing the difference in those u meet and furthermore did u really hit me with a line equivalent to "Who gon' check me boo?" all class that i thought u may have possessed have just flown out the window...waving bye now... please know that if i was a racist u would have been called more than 'sorted candy'(assorted candy) or anything sweet. i think everything u said to me is how u really feel about urself Candy.. i mean the whole part about not liking what u see when u look in the mirror, where'd that come from Candy?? came from UR insecurities not mine..ppl like u who blend good points with bs usually get away with it,,, but just not with me..i recognize the numbness u have for ur black sisters thats IF u really are black at all, i cant see how someone with an ounce of african american in them would respect what u've said so far about black women, u calling me a baby, a cry baby at that, and telling me to GET OVER IT..really laughable, i want to see more strong black men become better leaders and role models in their communities, Candy!! i want to see them do well and teach young black boys to grow into strong level headed men to protect their women and children and not run from their responsibitilities... i'm sure u are really cold hearted to black women.. and not for nothing, i'll bet ur mom is white. and u probably have a hard time relating to the women on the black side of ur family... its easy for ppl like u to say that black women are insecure when u've never lived a day in our shoes..i'm talking about feelings that go back deeper and way past any history that began with the birth of ur parentsn or the creation of u...and i mean that in the most respectful manner i can put it.. arguin back and forth wont change either of our feelings,, but if u're too shallow and perfect(in ur own mind) to put urself in someone elses shoes and try to understand why they may feel a certain way, that shows ur level of immaturity and insecurities that u may be dealing with....i dont think for one moment that just because u're mixed.. u have NO insecurities as a women.... save that trash.... and why is it that u seem to be goin so hard for the black men and goin so hard on me as a black woman... funny thing is i let my boyfriend read this forum because he and i think similar regarding relationships... we both agree that black men should date who they want, but never make the mistake of disrespecting the women in his own race as a whole...and thats what i was speaking against for the record... i dont like it when black men disrespect black women with hideous insults then turn in the same sentence and praise women of another race... u on here like captn save a bro, but acting like u hate the black women.. i think u are really get a sick kick out of trying to set black women straight... glad u got time to waist.. because i can carry this conversation on for the rest of the year but at my own pace... i bet u use ur passive aggressive ways to get through life dont u? u werent offended by anything i said u're the one who is used to it... thats why u jumped at the chance to speak alllllllllll that *** on this thread just to show how much hate u have for black women.. i'll bet the topic could have been about black women who sing gospel and u would have been on here talking bout how we need to wake up....and stop singing the blues... u're probably prejudice against the women on ur black side of the family... and they probably all smell the hate seeping from ur pores when u sweat in a room full of sistahs... something tells me u welcome every bit of negative energy between black men and black women,,, with that being said, go reach out to the real black women in ur life and let them know that u're tired of black women wanting black men to love them back and be respectful u idiot. let them know that u understand why black men are being so disrespecful and disloyal to black women..let them know Candy.... and to ppl who dont believe that black men and black women owe each other a certain level honor, i say u're evil and pathetic and have no clue what it is to be a black women... and i dont need a fuqqin census bureau or any statistics to tell me what i observe...
my dad is a retired air force pilot and my mom was a well respected and loved art teacher at Westinghouse High school until she passed away. my parents married before i was concieved and i was raised in a loving home with both my mom and dad... now saying that i want u to know that i'm very well rounded, i've travelled to different countries with my parents seen plenty of neighborhoods and funspots, met plenty of ppl of other cultures...in 2008 i completed my BA in psychology, so dont let these grammatical typing errors make u think any less of me....i dont use my finances or experiences to down anyone or brag on my upbringing.. i'm not voicing my opininon out of hurt or anger,,,i'm speaking from a strong woman who knows why i am strong... because of my father, my mother, and my experiences... i think its a beautiful thing when black man stays and helps his black woman raise their child/ren.. my parents were amazing... and i didnt start fuqqin early or get pregnant as a teen.. i did things the way i should because i had both parents there giving me love and direction...
Honestly, I stopped reading midway thru ur novel. By the way, I'm half Indian *** half black. Go sit down and have a cup of milk.... O wait, no..... Black coffee lol. I seriously don't feel like reading the rest of ur story however, thank u for showing me how angry and bitter u became w me. U started this whole thing. U got nasty w me. Anyway good luck in ur ongoing tirade about black men disrespecting black women. As if black women are exempt from their behavior. Black, white, Chinese, whatever, they all do it *** u can't stop it so stop ur whining ok??? Waah waah waah boohoooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lmao at u. Go ahead, write another ten page rant. Im not gonna read it. Ur a whiny little baby. Go get ur bottle, shove it in ur mouth, and go lay down. Ur pathetic tryna disrespect me. Talkin about black ppl disrespectin each other well ur doing it right now. Just because I'm half black/ Indian that makes me NOT black? Plz girl I'm black and u don't respect ur own kind go sit down u hypocrite.
Like I'm not entitled to write anything because I'm not 100% black. U sound stupid. Ur a racist because u talk about mixed ppl don't understand. Cut it out u racist. It's 2013 black ppl don't need representation. What world are u living in? If u talkin bout this forum where black men diss black women, why don't u just ignore it cuz u can't do nothing about it. I'm gonna move on to the next post because I tried posting my opinion here w/out being rude but u just had to go and act all belligerent in ur response. Girl plz don't talk about disrespect when u don't even know how to talk to ppl. Ur rude, disrespectful, and ur a racist. I will let u have the last word since it means so much to u. Goodbye:)
oh girl u know u read that novel, every word of it i'm sure... and u'll be back to read this.... we can just agree to disagree and keep it movin.... but not before i let u know.. i do have my coffee and i added milk AND its good... i'm sure under different *** on different topics we may see some things the same.. i can say that i'm proud of u and myself, for not letting it lead to fake internet threats and too much beef as i've read on this site daily.. it is what it is... i can honestly say i liked conversing with u because most ppl just start talkin *** about fighting and what not which is silly to me,, especially when the odds of us ever meeting is next to none, one thing u may want to stop doing is callin black women who adore their race, racists.. I’m far from it.. but can u blame me if I would care about ur feelings as a fellow black woman?? I know i can be rude and disrespectful but u’ve been rude and disrespectful as well, and if u say I started this… well DUHH idiot I wrote the thread that u spoke on,,,but u're not ignoring the things ppl say on here either my friend .. u made a blog warning ppl on here are 'disrespectful' all u do is call ppl stupid and disrespectful... but u're obviously a fan of this unsophisticated filthy site, and i see u roll around in the filth with the disrespectful ones u mention... maybe u're a bit of the hypocrit u've been callin me... maybe u dont realize that u actually like reading the drama and its quite possible u enjoy indulging in it as well... so YES i love having the last word... when someone is acting so righteous and so innocent and pointing the blame at ppl like u do... i dont like that... i dont have a beef with anyone... and u tried tellin me i was wrong for FEELING a way about the men and women in my race, so now that i see u are just a stuck up chick that is on this site to WARN ppl about how this site is so ridiculous... and by the way wasnt this supposed to be ur last post EVER!?!?! NYCandy I will end this now: Everyone on here is not the same [EXPLETIVE] creating a million accounts. I'm an individual....a smart one. Don't care about the immature comments on here. Keep posting this is my last post ever on here because this is not a real forum w real ppl. It's stupid and the ppl on here are stupid. There. Goodbye. s[SPAM]oooo the ppl on here are stupid? well smart one that has to include u,… u trashed some ***/*** person on a thread u created, but u came at me as if u were angelic, or someone who only speaks with classa and integrity LMAO AT U ... welcome to ur state of hypocrisy....... and u sound like a loser pleading with ppl not to post on here...LOL... u are a joke on this site i'm almost sure anyone who reads ur threads will see u as a stuck up delusional chick who THINKS shes perfect... so have fun patrolling this site..and know that u will not change how anyone thinks if u won’t try relate to them... i'm just sayin.... go stand up for something real... my thread was all about self-love and self-respect in a race.. and u have every right to speak on the topic, and give ur opinion on it, but u were really anti-black women in ur comments and its sucks to be u if u didnt realize how u sounded.. u may be prejudice against ur own race, no wait,, maybe just the women..and just so ya know I’m sure this wont be the last time I mention the condition of black men and womens relations…so next time don’t say *** just smile to urself and thank God u don’t have to love our ppl as much as I do :^)
U said ur proud of me then u call me an idiot, stuck up, loser, hypocrite, racist, all this other ***. U also say the ppl on here are stupid. Well... aren't u one of those ppl? I mean, u are here too. I actually didn't read the rest of ur last two posts but I did bother to read this one. I can write whatever I want even if I say it's my last time. It's a free country. U posted a thread and u posted knowing full well that ppl will comment. So please understand that. Ur talking about someone having morals but u prove to have none when u come on here and call ppl names. Thank u.
are u speaking of the same morals u displayed when u created a thread calling someone an ugly foster child who was probably molested as a kid?? or do u have several different types of morals that u use to stoop or rise to the occasion??? Oh what u dont like being called a racist?? or is it the hypocrit part thats got u ticked off?? okay sweets... sweetie i never called the ppl on this site stupid... YOU DID... I WAS QUOTING U, maybe u should read everything... because ur entire comment is off if u thought i called ppl on here stupid.. i quoted ur thread darling... remember this?? THIS IS WHAT U POSTED: DO NOT POST ANYTHING ON THIS FORUM!!!! February 07, 2013: Please refrain from posting on MTO forum. There are users here who harass ppl. I'm talking about REALLY harassing ppl. They are disrespectful and most of all, they do nothing but log in all day and curse ppl out. I think new users should just find somewhere else to go because this forum is filled w filthy ppl. I'm sure u will have the privilege of seeing who they are if u ever read the posts on here. It's only a matter of time before one of them posts on here. Then u can see for urself. If ur looking for a forum with sophisticated and mature users, this is definitely not the one. It's like trying to buy an angus steak at McDonalds. Not gonna happen. SO COME AGAIN.. what are u saying?? I NEVER CALLED THE PPL ON THE SITE STUPID.. YOU DID.. you dont even remember the BS u type on here.. SMDH u're starting to sound more and more like a lost cause... so please dont try to se me straight by treated me.. i cant be treated on this site...u just proved to be really confused person thats what i get from ur comments
Did u really just say that I called ppl on here "stupid". ???? Wow plz go back and read it again. I swear something is really wrong w u. Not once did I use that word while posting that thread. U even copied and pasted it and yet u still accuse me of writing the word "stupid". I said DISRESPECTFUL!!! CAN U READ?????????? Wow!!!!!!! Plz girl bye!!! Ur putting words in my thread. Ur very disrespectful. U been calling me names and sweetie and all this other ***. I can just see u rolling ur neck and ur eyes lookin like ShaNayNay lml
How u gonna try to check me talkin bout I don't remember the BS I wrote on here. Really? U mean the thread u just copied and posted right above? U did all that 4 what? Talkin bout I'm a lost cause and I'm confused. Plz stop now. U lookin real cuckoo right now girl. U can copy and paste all the threads u want. It's not my fault ur insecure about the way u look. All this started because u felt like Harriet Tubman lml wake up girl ur black skin is not gonna change the way ppl treat u. It's ur stink attitude. Fix that funky little attitude and MAYBE ppl will respect u. Talkin bout u luv ur black ppl and don't like them disrespectin each other when u on here disrespectin me. Gtfoh w that boo. When u disrespect ppl, u get it in return. U outta all ppl demanding respect smmfh straight trash talkin me u a bird
Bravo sweetie...well said.. too bad I couldn't reach that "gun" u just offered me..sure u reached as far as ur little arms could stretch to try to hand it to me...now go pick up a phone and tell ur therapist how I've offened u and get it outta ur system...btw....I love the skin I'm in...its u who have a problem with me loving myself...u self-hate all u want...I know what we've both said and I see we both stand by how we feel...doesn't make me or u wrong for feeling a certain way...although I could never be in a friendship with someone who thinks as u do about black women who feel like I do about black men..PERIOD! And who are u to call someone a bird? Lmao..u must be a buzzard azz pigeon to even think to use that...racoon looking runner giving blow jobs for ReeBoks azz chick..I knew it...By the way u are not cute enough to keep calling someone ugly and I'm a beautiful woman who has no problems finding a good black man...my point is some of us do...and I genuinely feel for them ... We can leave it at that.. enjoy ur week...
The title of the book that will enlighten you as to why "WE" are the way we are is They Stole It But You Must Return It by Richard Williams, ED.D. I never realized how much the effects of slavery and race relations are taken for granted until I started reading this book. *** is so real it's scary how much influence one culture can have over another.
Thanks REAL, i will definitely check that out... i hate that i got into such a nasty discussion with another black woman... i feel like if black women cant relate to each other when it comes down to black men, or at least learn to understand and empathize with one another, we will never be taken seriously,, i mean when u think about it black women are being programmed to hate each for all sorts of reasons.. dont hate me because i love what i see when i look in the mirror, dont hate me because i want a man who i can be a reflection of with me making and raising beautiful chocolate babies... thats a beautiful thing,, and its not wrong for black women to dream of having a strong black husband who loves her mind body and soul, and gives her lovely children that they can raise as strong black productive intelligent goal driven proud black men and women who grow up with a sense of purpose and security in who they are and where they've come from, when men and women in the black race say that thinking and speaking highly of other black ppl is being a racist, they're exibiting proof of how some blacks have been programmed and our strong deep way of thinking is becoming watered down, sense when does being pro-black make me a racist??? i dont dislike other races.. but i love my own...
